Why the Resurrection Makes Forgiveness Possible

Have you ever struggled to forgive someone? Though we know intellectually that we should forgive because God forgave us, we sometime struggle emotionally to let go of hurts that others have done us. But she wronged me. You don’t know what he did to me.

I’m not excusing others’ behaviors and actions. More than likely, we all have felt some form of injustice. Perhaps we have knowingly or unknowingly injured someone as well.

But the point is not what people do to us but how we respond to them. We can’t control their actions, but we can control our response to it. When Steven R. Covey tells the story of Holocaust survivor Viktor E. Frankle, he explains this man’s discovery while undergoing unspeakable mistreatment in a concentration camp.

In the space between stimulus (what happens) and how we respond, lies our freedom to choose.

Frankle found that although he could not control what happened to him, he still controlled how he responded to it. Even though he was a prisoner, he discovered freedom that his tormentors could not take away from him.

Yes, freedom. Most of us will probably never experience a concentration camp like Frankle or a satellite prison like my heroine Portia in The Revolutionary. But we will find ourselves in hard situations where others wrong us. When we choose forgiveness as our response, we can drop the burden of bitterness and live in the light of God’s grace.

The cross and empty tomb

The cross and the empty tomb represent forgiveness at its ultimate triumph.

In the cross, we see Christ’s sacrifice for us and the unimaginable sin debt He forgave by willingly giving Himself to die for us. Not only did He die for us, but Jesus also experienced the excruciating pain of isolation from His Father. He took on the full wrath of God so that we wouldn’t have to.

Even though we didn’t deserve God’s forgiveness, He made possible a way for us to find it (John 3:16). Shouldn’t we then extend  generosity to others who perhaps do not “deserve it”? I like how Paul explains this challenge in Ephesians 4:32: “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you” (ESV).

In the empty tomb, we see His complete conquest and victory over death. I Corinthians 15:56-57 reminds us that the believer can know freedom from earthy constraints because of the resurrection. “The sting of death is sin, and the strength of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (NKJV). 

I think that victory extends to all aspects of our Christian lives, including the challenge of forgiveness. We can live victoriously when we let go of pain and hurt and truly forgive. 

Forgiveness made possible

In the words of C.S. Lewis, the resurrection makes forgiveness possible for this basic reason:

To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable, because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you.

That’s the bottom line. What others have done may indeed be inexcusable, but we can forgive because God first forgave us.

Easter or Resurrection Sunday is a few short days away. Don’t carry unnecessary bitterness with you into this time of remembrance and celebration. Drop those weights at the foot of the cross and bask in the power of forgiveness, modeled perfectly for us through Jesus Christ.

~ Kristen


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Don’t Throw Paint at a Heart Problem

I feel a little guilty. The other day, I set a beautiful piece of furniture out by the road for trash pickup. However, before the garbage crew arrived, some unlucky person thought it was a steal and snatched it.

What’s wrong with that? Let me back up the story.

When I first purchased the hutch, it was ordinary and old, but with a friend’s help, I transformed it into a Pinterest-worthy piece.

But there was one problem. While I thought it would look perfect in my home, a bug had already made it his home.

I first suspected something was wrong when I moved the hutch from my parent’s garage to my new house. Initially, I dismissed the sawdust inside one of the drawers as a side effect of moving. Someone probably knocked the wood during the haul.

Then, the other week, a fresh mound of sawdust appeared on the carpet, and my skin crawled. I enlisted my family to move it curbside.

I thought about setting out a sign to warn people not to pick it up. But what would I say? “Warning: Bug Living in Furniture”? That just sounded weird.

Besides, people might not believe me. From the outside, the hutch looked perfect.

But pretty is only paint deep. Burrowing inside is something that will ultimately destroy it.

A Heart Problem

That bug is a little like sin. People tend to focus on the external. We have only to glance at a magazine or newspaper advertisement to be reminded that society obsesses over appearance.

On the other hand, God cares about the heart.

  • Proverbs 31:30 – “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised” (NKJV).
  • I Samuel 16:7 – “For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart” (NKJV).

On our own, we can add a few layers of paint, but we can’t solve the root of the problem. Only God can. His work transforms from the inside out, making us brand new.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. (2 Corinthians 5:17 NKJV)

Becoming God’s child is a lot easier than figuring out how to treat an infested piece of furniture. All we have to do is confess that we can’t fix our sin problem on our own and instead trust that Jesus took care of it once and for all when he died on a cross and rose again, victorious over sin and death.

For Reflection

Looking back, I should have somehow warned people not to pick up the hutch. More importantly, though, I need to be sharing with others the good news that Jesus loves them and can give them a clean heart and a fresh start.

  • Has God placed people in your life who need to hear the gospel? What’s holding you back from witnessing to them and warning them about the destructive nature of sin?
  • Is there sin in your own life you need to confess so that it doesn’t hinder your relationship with God?
  • Have you been focusing too much on outward appearances and circumstances? Spend time in God’s Word to learn what He values (I Peter 3:3-4).

Please leave your thoughts in the comments below. I’d love to hear from you!

~ Kristen


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The Paradox of the Cross

The Romans used the cross as a merciless method of execution. Crucifixion embodied the cruelest form of torture, shame, and Roman brutality.

Yet, we Christians see the cross as a symbol of hope. Because of the cross, we have the promise of eternal life in heaven, a place prepared for those who trust Jesus’ atoning blood, shed for us.

Have you ever stopped to consider this paradox and how it might appear to someone unfamiliar with the gospel?

In The Revisionary, Portia has no understanding of the Christian faith. She’s never seen a Bible and can only wonder about the book George Washington clutches, as shown in a decaying statue. So naturally, when she stumbles upon a graveyard, she puzzles why a cross adorns the landscape.

If only she could know the story behind the cross and the breathtaking paradox it presents.

A Curse Broken

In the Mosaic law, to die by hanging was a curse.

“And if a man has committed a crime punishable by death and he is put to death, and you hang him on a tree, his body shall not remain all night on the tree, but you shall bury him the same day, for a hanged man is cursed by God.”  – Deuteronomy 21:22-23a (ESV)

To be hanged meant a public execution and open shame. A criminal’s body remained visible until the sun went down, a poignant reminder that God’s holiness demands punishment of sin.

In the Old Testament, the Israelites offered animal sacrifices to temporarily atone for their sins. This shedding of blood made possible forgiveness (Hebrews 9:22). The sacrifices themselves had to be unblemished or as perfect as possible, but even so, they couldn’t permanently erase the memory of sin and had to be repeated.

That is, until God sent His own Son as a ransom for humanity’s sins. He provided a final, ultimate payment “with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot” (I Peter 1:19).

Yes, final. When Jesus willingly laid down his life, his blood provided a once and for all atonement (Hebrews 7:27).

The just God whose holiness required punishment for sins is also the merciful God who provided His own Son to pay the penalty.

A Choice Presented

For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God. – I Corinthians 1:18 (KJV)

According to dictionary.com, a paradox is “a statement or proposition that seems self-contradictory or absurd but in reality expresses a possible truth.”

In this case, the cross presents a certain and unshakable truth, despite the apparent contradictions:

  • A criminal’s death and an innocent substitute: Jesus is Emmanuel, which literally means “God with us” (Matthew 1:23). The Son of God took on human likeness and entered the world for the purpose of dying for our sins (Philippians 2:5-11).
  • Blood-stained nails and washed-away sins: Jesus’ perfect blood covers and forgives our sins.
  • Death and life: Jesus’ death wasn’t permanent. He rose from the grave three days later, defeating the victory of death, thus making our eternal life possible (I Corinthians 15:56-57).

Is the cross a case of confused messages? I don’t think so. Rather, it presents God’s power and love demonstrated in the ultimate redemptive sacrifice, told eloquently in John 3:16.

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. (NKJV)

Whoever believes reveals that each one of us has a choice.

If you haven’t made that choice, I hope you’ll consider the Philippian jailer’s question in Acts 16:30. When suddenly confronted with his own guilt, he asked, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?”

Maybe he was expecting a hard demand. Maybe he thought he would have to work for his salvation, do something—anything—to make up for his mistakes.

Perhaps he expected to perform rigid acts of penance. Little did he know that Jesus Christ had already paid for his sins. All he had to do was accept His sacrifice on his behalf as final.

“Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved …” – Acts 16:31 (ESV)

This answer gave him hope, no, more than hope. It gave him a reason to rejoice. That same night, he and his household believed in Jesus Christ as their Savior.

However, some people will reject His salvation. To them, the message of the cross is foolishness or perhaps too unbelievable to be true.

But what is the alternative? The end of a rope and an irredeemable eternity.

I had the privilege of meeting author Steven James at the Florida Christian Writer’s Conference a few years back. He explains the paradox of the cross this way:

“If the cross was the end of the story, we would have no hope. But the cross isn’t the end. Jesus didn’t escape from death; he conquered it and opened the way to heaven for all who will dare to believe. The truth of this moment, if we let it sweep over us, is stunning. It means Jesus really is who he claimed to be, we are really as lost as he said we are, and he really is the only way for us to intimately and spiritually connect with God again.”

If you don’t know Jesus yet, I hope encountering the cross might spark the beginning of your eternal story.

~ Kristen



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